Long distance love, online dating, writing and working together to build a business, busy from 1,000 miles apart!
They say that working with your significant other can lead to problems. They also say that long distance relationships and online dating don’t work either. I don’t know who ‘they’ are, but my wife and I are constantly proving them wrong! It’s hard work. There is no denying that, but nothing is ever easy in life.
My wife and I both met playing one of those online games. Sounds crazy right? It probably is. Either way, we were both real people and neither of us ended up being serial killers or con artists, so that was a bonus. I still remember the first time that I met Sam. My mom made me ring her to let her know that she was a ‘real’ person and not some sort of man pretending to be a woman or a killer. Never mind that Sam had just flown halfway around the world from Canada to Australia to meet a strange man!
Anyway, that was three or four years ago now, and since then we have gotten married, I’m an official Canadian Resident, and we have started a business together. As I write this, Sam is sitting at her desk mumbling away to herself about something or someone. When I’m in Canada, we work right next to each other, but when I’m in Australia, we also work together. We call each other up on Skype or Viber, and I’ll talk to her as she goes about her day and vice-versa. It isn’t unusual for us to have four or five-hour conversations. I don’t know if that’s normal or not, but it is for us. So, when you add the fact that we spend 50% of our lives apart and we are on opposite sides of the world you also have to throw in children. Both of us have two children each, to ex-partners. A total of 3 boys and one girl. Busy.
I started freelancing as a writer to help make a little bit of money when I wasn’t working in Australia. Freelancing allows me to be able to work while traveling. It isn’t going to make me rich, but it’s a good way to top up my expenses while I’m traveling. Freelancing led to me writing my first book, more to prove a point than anything. My wife was having a book ghostwritten for a publisher, and the author they hired was terrible, so I wrote it instead. This led me to write several of my own non-fiction books and some children’s books. Now, I write a lot as a freelancer, several large books as a ghost writer for other authors and in my spare time, for myself.
Sam works for a large publishing company as a formatter and design specialist. She also does freelance work, manages our small publishing company we have started, and manages several authors. Busy.
Sam and I are getting close to when it’s time for me to go back to Australia so that always sucks. I’ll get to see my kids again, but won’t be able to see my wife and step kids for a little while. We are lucky this time as it’s only four weeks until Sam and the kids come over for Christmas in Australia! We have gone four months before between trips. Now we try and plan for a maximum of 10-12 weeks if possible.
What we do isn’t easy. It’s definitely not for the faint of heart, but when you find your soulmate, it’s worth whatever it takes!
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Ben Jackson Author Bio
Ben lives in Tasmania, Australia. While working during the week as a Boiler Maker/Welder, specializing in Aluminum Welding, he also writes of a night as a Freelance Writer and Author.
Ben is in a Long Distance Relationship with his wife Sam who lives in Canada, she works as a full-time formatting professional, publisher, and author. They both work for a number of clients, providing complete online administration solutions, SEO, website work and also publishing.
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